Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing here?

Marina Zest for Life  Living   Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing here?

Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing here?

I am sure many of us at some point in our life said

“Who am I?”

“Where am I going?”

“What am I doing here?”

We let go of that thought shortly after and carry on looking for ourselves; often in the wrong places and with the wrong people! We follow our thoughts and not our heart and things do happen.  We wish we would have listened to ourselves, and we didn’t.

We didn’t, for fear! Fear of our own power, fear of feeling vulnerable, uncovered, naked, unsafe. Thinking somebody can hurt us if we open the doors and windows of your soul. WAKE UP!!!!!!

No one hurts you more than you do!

How many times has somebody complimented your clothes and you said “this is only from Primark” or  “oh this is a very old thing”.  You have been told your hair is lovely and again your reply was “It’s very dry at the moment I need to cut it” Or a mention about the job you love “is boring really, after a while”

When someone acknowledges your talent as a painter and asks. “Have you ever thought about an exhibition? “Don’t be silly, nobody will buy my paintings”

I could tell you hundreds of situations when I have seen people undermining themselves giving their power away, not being able to receive and accept compliments; Feeling unworthy when someone was telling them how worthy they are.

Sometimes these are childhood unresolved fears when somebody with very low self-esteem made you believe you were no good, and you believed them. Why not? After all you loved them.

It’s time to believe in yourself or do you really believe that somebody forgot to install the worth file in you?

Nope!!!! Wasted hopes!

You are perfect

Perfect yes! Perfect, perfect, perfect!!!!!

It is fear isn’t it! Fear is what is stopping you, what used to stop me! What stops your dear ones? It’s fear that stops that child from being the genius he wishes to be just because some loser told him he was useless at Maths. It’s fear that stops that teacher becoming a professor: Fear of being hurt!

Fear is an emotion. What if I told you that by looking at things from different angle you could change that emotion for love, worthiness, respect, belief, self-esteem and courage? What if I tell you that when all these emotions work together you will be unstoppable?

What if I told you that there is a side of you that is most powerful and that can’t be seen or touched by anyone?

Fear would run away!

Well, there is no IF.  THERE IS!

Nobody can steal it, it is only yours and is in you. In every single molecule of your body. Ohhhh yes! In you, hard to believe it right? Not so hard, after all human beings are made perfect. It is our thoughts that are imperfect! It is many years of habits that create different beliefs.

There are people that won’t take action until they touch rock bottom. Others will lose their houses, kids, jobs, husband or wife before they wake up. Don’t let that happen! You already have the answers you have been looking for all your life: You are the answer.  You might ask, ” How do I find them?”

If you want to change anything and find who you are, where you are, you have to change your thoughts and you can’t do that without changing your vibration. And how do I do such a thing? “It is difficult I don’t know what to do!”

TRUST YOURSELF.   You can only take positives from it.

Why would you believe me? You don’t know me. Well, don’t believe me just take a leap of faith! It is your choice and the beautiful thing is – we always have a choice!

I am not here to sell you anything, I am here to tell you, to inform you, to explain to you that next time you say “what if?” ……… THERE IS!

So, who am I? Where am I? What am I doing here?